SUMMARY -To appeal to women, you need to build up your reputation as a good guy to be around. -For others to like you, you have to like yourself, and that means being comfortable with yourself. Improve yourself. -Make it a policy to help people. It could be a woman you’re attracted to or just someone else in the room. -Take care of your physical appearance. Attractiveness is subjective, but bad body odor, smelly breath, and greasy, unkempt hair are not attractive to most people. Wear clothes you like that look good. -The more people you meet, the bigger the pool of women you’ll come into contact with and befriend. Check forums, listings, classifieds, and Facebook groups for local events or meetings that are likely to attract people with similar interests or passions. -In your conversations, you need to be sincere, fun, and appealing. With your heightened self-confidence, that should be no problem. -Talk to lots of women on a consistent basis. Just have a conversation, ask her about her interests, and take an interest in them. -The best way to make a connection with people is to speak from the heart and live fully in the moment. What you say isn't nearly as important as how you say it: be sincere. -Everyone likes compliments, and you need to be able to be sincere when complimenting women. Sincerity is a skill that requires practice. -Odds are you’ll find lots of women attractive, and the majority of them will have no interest in you. There’s no reason to worry about that as it’s beyond your control. -Don’t give yourself reasons to avoid approaching people. -If she’s jogging with her headphones in or reading on the bus with her legs crossed in a closed posture, better not bother her. -Keep your friendships slightly flirty. Even if they're not interested in you, they may be more likely to set you up with a friend. -When you’re chatting up a woman, make her laugh. Girls like people who have a good sense of humor, and the key to having a good sense of humor is to be lighthearted and unabashedly yourself. -Relax and have fun when you’re chatting with women. This is really important. If you’re too anxious or take it all too seriously, that will come across.