How to stop being a nice guy. We’ve all heard of the expression “Nice guys finish last.” Nice guys get friend-zoned. Nice guys put in effort and the bad boy next door is the one who gets results. Sometimes the world of romance is a competition. You may want that one person but there are also five other people with their eyes on the same prize. Nobody bets on the slowest horse at the races. The nice guy is like the slow horse. You should aim to be the fastest horse, the most unpredictable, the riskiest bet with the most to win. Now I’m not saying that all guys should just stop being the nice guy. This is for those, who might want to change up their tactics when approach the same crush or if your previous tactics aren’t working because you’re too brotherly like. But I’m not telling you to become an A hole. We don’t need those. What you do need to do is to have a bit of an edge, an air of intrigue that makes you less predictable and more appealing. There are many ways to go about this and I’m going to go over a few tips on how to stop being a nice guy.